The hard parts of this game are twofold. First, you have to actually stand firm and convince her that she can't have you. Not only do you have to be believable, you have to play out the gig long enough to get the power back in your favor. If you don’t take it far enough, you’ll be right back where you started.

You can play the game subtly, or be right out in the open about it. I personally am a straight shooter. It fits my personality, so I just come right out and say, “Ok, you have to have known I was into you. I’m over it, realized that it wasn’t going to happen so I’m over it. But, we can be friends if you want, either way I’m good.  I just thought you should know so things aren't weird."  You’ll almost be able to see her want you right on the spot. 

The next step is to back up your words with actions.  DO NOT CALL HER FOR AT LEAST 4 DAYS!!  She won’t even begin to get curious for the first two, so she'll really only be wondering what's going on for two days.  If you cave-in and call her before finishing, she will have no respect for you.  If she calls you asking you to do something, just say, "ehhh, I might, but probably not, I’m supposed to go out with the guys but thanks for the offer."

After she contacts you, wait a minimum of 3 more days before calling her.  If she contacts you in the meantime asking for your company, it's okay to do something light with her. Still, you should cut the night short and have a genuine "take you or leave you attitude" with her. Now, don’t be a fuckhead to her, but don't indicate that you're interested in her whatsoever.  

You can even make a point to look at other hot chicks and comment on them.  I mean after all, you're just friends right?  It will drive her crazy and drive her to wanting you. If she starts commenting on other guys, that's a good sign that it’s working.  She’s jealous and wants to make you jealous in return.  Never underestimate the power of jealousy and women protecting their territory.

When using this tactic, try to cut the night short like you have somewhere to be later.  When you try to get ahold of her, always wait a minimum of three days between each contact. When she initiates a meeting, employ a 50/50 ratio of blowing her off and going out with her.

Occasionally contact her just to stay on the tip of her mind. Call just to ask her something you want to know.  For example, you could say, "hey, what was the name of that really good sushi place you wanted to go to?……….ok, thanks cool.  See ya."  

I usually continue this cycle until she is throwing herself at me like a pathetic high schooler.  But, don’t take it tooooooo far. Every woman has a limit where she will just give up. You have to be able to read her.

The whole point of this scheme is to get her interested in you.  Nothing is more interesting than an elusive person that you can’t have.  It’s a simple fact, people want what they can’t have and don’t respect what they can’t get rid of.  I promise, it works.  Stay strong, and hold your ground.  She’ll eventually come around.

Go make 'em think they can't have you, young slayer of virtue!

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